Ever have the desire to meet someone but being plagued with the fear of having to be immediately intimate? So that's what I'm looking to avoid' not looking to be your black girl fetish, thick girl fetish (please don't confuse thick with fat) although I am both, but maybe someone who wants to chill and allow me to know them. I'm super down to earth and somewhat unavailable, it's complicated by choice.Not looking for anything clingy, toxic or dishonest. We're grown right? Say what you mean and mean what you say. I don't smoke - anything- and I barely drink but I'm always fun. I'm intelligent and have been toldI'm beautiful and I believe it. Don't ask me what I want' I don't know but I'd like to find out. I like deep conversations, considerate people, cuisine, doing everything and doing nothing lol. If you want to know more'. Ask.Happy searching'